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The Mediation Room

The Meditation Room
Welcome to The Meditation Room where you can enjoy a new meditation each week.

How to use
Print out the meditation. Find a quiet spot somewhere at home. Dim the light if you can. Some soft music is useful but not essential. Read the meditation very slowly, stopping to consider and savour each line. Then put the paper down and take yourself through the meditation in your mind.


Meditation
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Flowers from Zully's Garden

Finding Contentment

One day, many years ago, while meandering through the soft and mellow countryside surrounding one of England's oldest towns, a definition of contentment crystalised in my head. "Wherever you are is wherever you are meant to be, whatever you are doing is whatever you are meant to be doing, and whatever everyone else is doing is what they are meant to be doing."

The wisdom contained in this insight is of course not new, and has been with us through the ages. But the challenge is to actually feel it, be it, live it.
Being content is both a journey and a destination. The journey is being aware of all the things that make us discontent and freeing ourselves from those things (ideas, opinions, objects, people) - not in rejection of these things, but a detachment from them that restores our inner freedom This is accompanied by the experience of a deep, inner awareness of satisfaction and stillness, without dependency on anything outside ourselves.

It is highly unlikely that we will arrive at this deep state of serenity in one meditation - though we may touch it momentarily. It is only by cultivating the understanding that everything is the way it is meant to be at every moment, both outside our minds and inside our minds, that we move closer to being contented.
This meditation is a start.

Sit comfortably...
Be aware of yourself...
Be aware of the world around you - the room, the house, the town, the world...
You are aware of frenetic change and yet you are in the middle of it all as it happens around you...
You are at the centre of the universe - your own universe...
But now you are the observer...
Simply be the witness, as if you are watching a grand movie...
See the world as a huge unlimited movie...
A motion picture with a million subplots unfolding in their own time and space exactly as they should...
Each and every human being is an actor playing his or her unique part exactly according to the script...
You are in the audience simply watching - observing everything happening exactly as it should be...
Don't assess or judge...
Try not to allow your attention to alight on any specific scene...
Continue to hold this awareness of the whole, big picture...
See the drama of life as it is at this moment...
It's OK - it's the way it is meant to be...
Now expand your awareness a little more to hold all of time - the past, the future and the present...
All that has unfolded and is unfolding has and is ...exactly as it should be... What is meant to be will be...
You are just a being who is simple being, as everything just is, as it was and is meant to be...

 

Why Meditation?


The high road to relaxation

By far the deepest and most direct route to relaxation is meditation. It is no accident that for over two thousand years almost every 'wisdom path' has featured meditation as the core practice to achieve everything from relaxation to inner peace to mystical states of enlightenment.

The journey of the soul

The purpose of helping you to learn to meditate is not to turn you into a mystic (although there is always that possibility!) but to introduce you to the practice of meditation as a way to the deepest form of relaxation - the relaxation of spirit. The most profound calm and serenity lie at the core of our own being, we have simply lost awareness of its presence. Spirit is what we are, sometimes referred to as soul. We each radiate energy in the form of spiritual light. That light emanates from the core of your being, and is entirely invisible.

The quality of your thoughts and feelings will be according to the quality of that light. The atmosphere in a room is the result of the collective radiance of those in a room, a building, a community and even a nation (what we sometimes call vibrations).

The true and original nature of each and every soul is peaceful and loving. However, our peace has become disturbed and distorted by our attachments, wrong beliefs and misperceptions, all learned on the journey of this life, and possibly several previous lives. Unwittingly, we have learned to turn the energy of our hearts from peace into anger, from love into fear, from happiness into sorrow. Meditation is the deepest and most effective way to 'let go' of the attachments which distort our energy and heal the spiritual wounds of the past. Meditation is the easiest way to see and transcend our old beliefs, gain a true insight into eternal truths, and dissolve the blocks that have stopped us from experiencing our inner peace. However, practice and perseverance is required!

The practice of meditation does not require any previous experience, the shaving of heads, the chanting of mantras, complex postures or the burning of sticks. All you need to get started is a quietish space at home, a comfortable chair (not too comfortable) and the intention to get to know yourself. If you are just beginning, then ten minutes in the morning and in the evening is about right. You will naturally increase this at your own pace.

Ultimately meditation is not something that you do, but a way by which you discover and understand how to consciously create your state of being. You do need a little patience. We are not accustomed to inward focus, but are more inclined to pay attention to outer noises and events. So as you begin, many external sounds may interrupt, or your body may feel uncomfortable and distract you. But in time, with practice and patience, you will easily learn to be beyond anything ‘coming in’ through your physical senses. Meditation will help you to master your senses, maintain your focus of inner attention and therefore remain undisturbed by external events.

As you sit for your meditation ensure you are fresh and not sleepy, alert in posture, but not rigid. Take each meditation in the book and practice twice daily for a week. Don’t try to recreate previous meditation experiences. No two experiences can ever be the same. If you don’t ‘seem’ to experiencing anything special stay with it. While your meditation may not have seemed to be very peaceful or calm, two hours later you may experience a wave of deep peace. The fruit of effort is not always immediate. Experiment with your eyes open. Find a spot somewhere in front of you and gently rest your eyes (you can blink) on that spot as you use the thoughts within the meditation to take you on an inward journey, beyond awareness of your senses.

Before you meditate read the meditation through. Then read it again, stopping after each line to assimilate the thought. Then take ten minutes to take yourself into the experience. You do not have to remember every word exactly in sequence. In fact you may wish to depart from the suggested thoughts as your meditation develops. Ultimately our thoughts are simply vehicles to take us beyond thought, and into silence.

Rediscovering meaning

Have you ever been aware of the following questions flitting across the screen of your mind? "Who am I?" "Why am I here?" "What is the meaning of life?" These questions are amongst the most obvious signs of the absence of relaxation at the level of spirit. They also point the way towards the deepest and most profound dimension of life – the spiritual dimension of our self. While meditation will help you to focus, concentrate and think more peacefully and powerfully, the deepest purpose of the art of meditation is to reunite you with the answers to these questions. You already know who you are and why you are here but you are not aware of what you know!

Meditation is the method to:

  • Become intuitively aware of who you really are beyond the superficial labels of modern society
  • Experience the core energy of your being which is peaceful, positive and powerful
  • Direct that power into our abilities to create, communicate and co-operate with others
  • Discern the real meaning of life and your unique purpose in this lifetime

 

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